Far too many people jump into the dating pool with no guidance, self-awareness, or prayer.

We're here to change that.

Over the years, there has been a glaring lack in true formational, structured guidance about how to date in a healthy, Christ-focused way in the Catholic Church. This has caused a great mess of miscommunication, heartache, and confusion. Dating101 is here to guide people out of the mess and into clarity.

In this course, we’ll walk through what healthy pursuit and receptivity look like, how to build true connection, how one is supposed to communicate, discern, pursue, set boundaries, date with purpose, and so much more. It will help you reflect, discern, and listen to God's voice more clearly in this season of your life.

Maybe you’ve dated before, or maybe you’ve never been in a relationship - either way, this course is for you. We at SacredSpark want to walk alongside you right where you are as you enter or re-enter the dating journey.

Let’s start something good — together.

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Reviews

5 star rating

A Wise, Christ-Centered Roadmap for Dating

George Peterson

This guide was incredibly helpful and clearly written. It’s knowledgeable, rooted in Scripture and Church teaching, and it touches all the essentials of Catholic dating, discernment, intention, communication, boundaries, chastity, prayer, communit...

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This guide was incredibly helpful and clearly written. It’s knowledgeable, rooted in Scripture and Church teaching, and it touches all the essentials of Catholic dating, discernment, intention, communication, boundaries, chastity, prayer, community, and pacing. I especially loved the reflection questions; they pushed me to examine my habits, clarify my non-negotiables, and make practical next steps. The tone is balanced, truthful and encouraging, so you finish with both clarity and peace rather than confusion or pressure. Whether you’re single, just starting to date, or hoping to move toward a serious relationship, this is an excellent resource. Highly recommend!

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A true resource!

Daniel Iglesias

What an excellent format to share and reflect! The videos are simple to understand and share authentic experience. The handouts after each video provide timely opportunities to reflect and truly digest the content!

What an excellent format to share and reflect! The videos are simple to understand and share authentic experience. The handouts after each video provide timely opportunities to reflect and truly digest the content!

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WOW! Thank you Daniel and Emily!

Marianne Mencias

So generous of you to pour your hearts into this. It is very helpful both practically and spiritually. What a much needed resource in the dating world today. Thank you for saving marriages and families even before they begin. So excited for Sacred...

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So generous of you to pour your hearts into this. It is very helpful both practically and spiritually. What a much needed resource in the dating world today. Thank you for saving marriages and families even before they begin. So excited for Sacred Spark!!

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Dating 101: A Christ Centered Guide to Intentional Relationships

Katherine McDonald

I definitely felt that this guide really hit home for me on many different things. I definitely feel that it would definitely reach so many others as well and I definitely will recommend to all my single lady friends and single guy friends this re...

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I definitely felt that this guide really hit home for me on many different things. I definitely feel that it would definitely reach so many others as well and I definitely will recommend to all my single lady friends and single guy friends this really wonderful guide . Thank You for putting this together it is truly beautiful and inspiring as well. God is truly good .

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Incredible

Brighid Walsh

This was an incredible overview of what Christ centered dating is. I highly recommend!

This was an incredible overview of what Christ centered dating is. I highly recommend!

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Amazing

Karina Rangel

I love how the guide is unique in its own way. It true helped me reflect in myself in areas that I didn’t think were necessary. I’m so excited for more people to dive in into this course! It’s awesome!

I love how the guide is unique in its own way. It true helped me reflect in myself in areas that I didn’t think were necessary. I’m so excited for more people to dive in into this course! It’s awesome!

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Great!

Mac Nowalk

I definitely think there were some importants notes in here people need to keep in mind. The biggest one, probably for those who are devout, is believing that God is deeply invested in your vocation because He wants you to be happy. I think also t...

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I definitely think there were some importants notes in here people need to keep in mind. The biggest one, probably for those who are devout, is believing that God is deeply invested in your vocation because He wants you to be happy. I think also the understanding that He can change your perspective on dating, wounds that you're going through, or things that need to be built upon. This is really good prayer material in general, and it really doesn't need to solely apply to dating.

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Excellent

Ernesto Saldivar

Needed

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Incredible start

Maria Perdomo

This first chapter alone feels like is "dissecting" every single aspect of what healthy dating for Catholics should look and feel like.

This first chapter alone feels like is "dissecting" every single aspect of what healthy dating for Catholics should look and feel like.

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Resource outline

    1. Here we go!

    2. Tell us a little bit about you!

    3. Intro: Why Foundations Matter

    4. 1.1 What Is the Purpose of Dating?

    5. Worksheet 1.1 - Reflection Questions

    6. 1.2 Discerning Your Readiness to Date

    7. Worksheet 1.2 - Reflection Questions

    8. 1.3 Virtue as the Heart of Attraction

    9. Worksheet 1.3 - Reflection Questions

    10. 1.4 How God’s Plan for Love Shapes Dating

    11. Worksheet 1.4 - Reflection Questions

    1. Intro: Becoming Ready

    2. 2.1 Becoming the Person You Want to Marry

    3. Worksheet 2.1 - Reflection Questions

    4. 2.2 Healing Past Wounds and Setting New Patterns

    5. Worksheet 2.2 - Reflection Questions

    6. 2.3 Building Confidence and Trust in God’s Timing

    7. Worksheet 2.3 - Reflection Questions

    8. 2.4 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Strengths in Dating

    9. Worksheet 2.4 - Reflection Questions

    1. Intro: Pursuit with Purpose

    2. 3.1 Courage, Clarity, and Initiative

    3. Worksheet 3.1 - Reflection Questions

    4. 3.2 How to Ask a Woman Out

    5. Worksheet 3.2 - Reflection Questions

    6. 3.3 Leading with Humility, Not Control

    7. Worksheet 3.3 - Reflection Questions

    8. 3.4 Reading and Respecting Her Responses

    9. Worksheet 3.4 - Reflection Questions

    1. Intro: Receiving with Grace

    2. 4.1 Receptivity as Strength, Not Passivity

    3. Worksheet 4.1 - Reflection Questions

    4. 4.2 How to Show Openness Without Chasing

    5. Worksheet 4.2 - Reflection Questions

    6. 4.3 Discernment vs. Indecision

    7. Worksheet 4.3 - Reflection Questions

    8. 4.4 Recognizing and Encouraging Good Leadership

    9. Worksheet 4.4 - Reflection Questions

    1. Intro: The First Steps

    2. 5.1 How to Get to Know Someone Deeply

    3. Worksheet 5.1 - Reflection Questions

    4. 5.2 Setting Boundaries That Foster Freedom and Joy

    5. Worksheet 5.2 - Reflection Questions

    6. 5.3 Dating with Purpose

    7. Worksheet 5.3 - Reflection Questions

    8. 5.4 Red Flags, Green Flags, and Discernment Checkpoints

    9. Worksheet 5.4 - Reflection Questions

    1. Intro: Growing Deeper

    2. 6.1 How to Have Hard Conversations Early

    3. Worksheet 6.1 - Reflection Questions

    4. 6.2 Discerning a Deeper Commitment

    5. Worksheet 6.2 - Reflection Questions

    6. 6.3 How to End Things Well If Need Be

    7. Worksheet 6.3 - Reflection Questions

    8. 6.4 Trusting God at Every Step

    9. Worksheet 6.4 - Reflection Questions

About this resource

  • 79 lessons
  • 1.5 hours of video content
  • 34 journaling worksheets
  • For individuals or small groups
  • Transforming the dating culture

Pricing

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FAQ

  • Who is this course for?

    This course is designed for singles who are serious about finding a Christ-centered relationship and dating in a healthy way.

    It’s for those who feel discouraged and disillusioned by the modern dating landscape, or for singles who are just entering (or re-entering) the dating world with a conviction to keep their dignity and faith at the forefront of every decision they make.

  • How long will I have access to this course for?

    Upon accessing/purchasing this formational course, you will have access to all its content for one (1) year.

  • How can I access this course for free?

    Sign up for the SacredSpark waitlist here. Once you sign up, you’ll get a welcome email containing your unique free-access link.

  • Is this only for people who want to use SacredSpark?

    Not at all. It’s designed for any single who wants to take dating seriously. If you are on the SacredSpark waitlist you get free access, non-waitlist members can purchase it.

  • Is this resource created by SacredSpark?

    Yes. Dating101 is created by SacredSpark's Co-Founder Emily Wilson Hussem and draws on her extensive ministry experience on dating and relationships.

  • Can I share this with friends, parish, or young adult community?

    Absolutely! The more people dating with clarity and virtue, the better. We just need everyone to register with their own individual account.

  • Is this live or self-paced?

    It's self-paced, so you can start and finish whenever you like — and go through it at your own pace.

  • Can I access Dating 101 internationally?

    Yes! Just be sure to join the SacredSpark waitlist to get free access. We're launching SacredSpark in the US first but plan to rapidly expand internationally soon after! So spread the word in your community so we know where to launch internationally first!

  • Will this help if I’m not dating anyone right now?

    Absolutely! Dating 101 is designed to help you both prepare for dating and support you during the journey of dating.